You know you love to ask… how philanthropy really works.

I’m the voice behind XOXO, Philanthropy — a love letter to fundraising, generosity, and the people who make good things happen. By day, I’m a fundraising pro with 10 years of experience building authentic donor relationships, telling impact-driven stories, and helping nonprofits raise more money without losing their soul. By night (and sometimes very early mornings), I’m reading, bingeing Netflix, and overanalyzing as if it were a full-contact sport.

This space was created for nonprofit professionals, fundraisers, donors, and curious humans who want to understand the why behind the ask — and do it better. Here, we talk about donor psychology, stewardship that actually feels human, career growth in the nonprofit world, and the moments that make this work meaningful (and sometimes a little chaotic).

I believe fundraising isn’t about convincing people to give — it’s about making change feel personal and possible. It can be strategic and heartfelt, professional and approachable, data-informed and deeply human. Here, we tell the stories, uncover the truths, and sometimes spill the secrets behind the work that makes a difference.

You’ll find practical advice, real-world insights, candid takes on the messier side of philanthropy, and the occasional pop-culture reference — because if we’re not having fun, what are we even doing?

Whether you’re new to development or a seasoned pro, my hope is that you leave feeling more confident, more curious, and a little less alone in this work.

XOXO, Philanthropy